The Five of Wands and the Six of Cups

Children exchanging a cup of flowers sit beside youths trading blows. The pair brings the past into a present conflict, as comfort, as an old rivalry, or as a feud waiting to be settled.

How the two cards meet

In an old walled courtyard, the taller of two children hands the smaller a cup filled with white five-petalled flowers, while a guard with a halberd walks away in the distance. The Five of Wands shows an older crowd and a rougher game: youths on an open hillside swinging staves, with nobody hurt. The Six is memory, kindness and the people from the querent's past; the Five is competition and disagreement in the present. Together they often describe an old relationship, a family, a former team or a childhood friend, where warmth and rivalry both have a history.

As contrary elements, Water and Fire blunt each other here: nostalgia softens the fight and the fight disturbs the nostalgia. Five and six make eleven, Justice, which asks for a fair account of the past before anyone claims to have been right.

Combinations are common patterns, not rules

The readings here describe how a pair most often reads. Check each one against two things before you apply it. The first is the question: the same pair says one thing about a relationship and another about a job offer, and the question decides which side of the pair matters. The second is the background, meaning what the querent already knows about the situation, the position each card holds in the spread, and the cards around the pair. When the question or the background points another way, go with them over the general reading. Each pair page lists the exceptions that come up most often.

Four ways the pair can fall

Both upright

Outlook: Mixed Yes or no: Leans yes

An old bond returns with an old rivalry, warm and competitive at the same time.

Someone from the past is back in the picture, and so is the friendly competition that came with them. The Six brings reunions, shared memories and acts of kindness, and the Five brings tests of strength, debate and a little ambition. Siblings or childhood friends who measure themselves against each other fit here, as does a reunion where the old jokes and the old arguments both resurface. At work, a former colleague or a proven method returns in a competitive setting, and past experience gives the querent an edge. Money can come from old projects or former clients, though the Five suggests negotiation over terms. A rekindled romance may feel warm and familiar while disagreements test whether it fits the present. The Six warns against relying only on familiar patterns, and the Five's disagreements can keep the bond honest. Justice as quintessence adds a note of fairness: old roles, such as the one who always gave and the one who always received, can be renegotiated on the querent's side.

Advice

Get in touch with the person from your past you keep thinking about, and keep the first conversation in the present tense.

Five of Wands upright, Six of Cups reversed

Outlook: Challenging Yes or no: Leans no

Old grievances resurface and the querent fights past battles again in the present.

The past here is a set of unsettled scores. The reversed Six brings old conflicts, past grievances and unfinished business back to the surface, and the upright Five turns them into fresh rivalry and a struggle over who was right. A family quarrel can reopen at a gathering, or a couple can keep returning to the same old argument because memories take up too much space and the relationship stalls. At work, issues with colleagues rooted in past misunderstandings flare into competition, and outdated methods slow the team down. Financially, the Six's fear of new ideas and its pull toward old mistakes can make a contest for money harder to win. The Five's advice to use tactics and strategy in communication helps only if the querent separates the present issue from the old one. Justice as quintessence asks for an honest look at both.

Advice

Before the next argument, ask yourself whether it is about this year or about something that happened long ago.

Five of Wands reversed, Six of Cups upright

Outlook: Harmonious Yes or no: Leans yes

An old feud is mended, and warmth from the past returns in place of rivalry.

Reconciliation with the past is the theme. Settled disputes, compromise and the end of competition come from the reversed Five, and the Six answers with kindness, restored connections and shared memories. A sibling rivalry or an estrangement in the family can soften into real affection. Contact with a former friend or partner can resume, and it feels gentle once the querent has put the old arguments down. At work, past disagreements with colleagues are resolved and cooperation returns, often by revisiting methods that worked before. Money matters can ease through the return of an old debt or work from a former client. In love, the Six's warm, comfortable connection grows once the competition between two people stops. The Six's caution about stagnation still applies, so the renewed bond should move forward rather than repeat the past.

Advice

Send a short, kind message to someone you fell out with years ago, with no reference to who was to blame.

Both reversed

Outlook: Mixed Yes or no: Leans no

The fight stops and the querent finally lets an old attachment go, slowly and with regret.

Two releases happen at once. The reversed Five shows the end of a contest, a concession or a loss of interest in the fight, and the reversed Six, among its themes, shows the need to let go of the past. Where the two meet, the querent stops fighting an old battle and starts loosening an old attachment. It is rarely tidy. A relationship that kept replaying old patterns may end, or settle into something new, with sadness over lost chances on the way. At work, the querent drops an outdated approach and a running dispute together, and the Six's advice to seek new opportunities follows. If the reversed Five slides into exhaustion instead, the letting go becomes avoidance, and the Six's grip on the past stays.

Advice

Choose one keepsake, habit or old argument to retire this month, and mark the day you let it go.

When this reading may not apply

In a question about an ex, the Six confirms that the past is on the querent's mind, and the Five shows the conflict that came with it; the upright Six with a reversed Five supports making peace, not necessarily getting back together. In family questions the pair often describes siblings, parents or an inheritance, where Justice as quintessence turns the reading toward fairness. As advice, it says honour the past and settle the old dispute. Placed as the obstacle, the pair shows an old rivalry shaping a present decision. When the Six points inward, to the querent's own childhood, the Five can describe an inner conflict about old loyalties.

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